The Sweet Spot - Stephanie Evanovich

Isn't this a romance? I ask because that was really early to hint at BDSM. I'm worried because I am just not in the mood. 


Then the story went on to the hero stalking wooing the heroine over a few weeks. It's rather cute. Though I'd like to have had much more of their banter on the page. I don't really want to see that dragged down by some ill-advised erotica, especially BDSM.